Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage? Your Thoughts

In my opinion, people must love each other for their marriage to succeed. Without love marriage is meaningless. Two people should spend the rest of their lives together, I emphasize the rest of their lives. It is not a small thing. You have to decide if the person fits you or not, not your friends or family. So, definitely Love Marriage.
 
I'd rather love marriage because i believe that marriage should be a "love" step, i'm not saying that there is anything wrong with people who prefer arrenged marriage ,if two adults decide to marry in that way then good for them and i wish them all the happiness in the world ,it is just that i can't understand how could anyone be happy marrying someone they don't love.
Marriage in my opinion is the result of love, of two people who decided to spend the rest of their lives together because they love each other , they trust and value each other and they don't want to be separated.Arrenged marriage on the other side seems like somthing that was normal and rational back in days , where people didn't have the freedom of choice and liberty , nowadays it seems more like a trade or a contract without feelings or hapiness ; yes it may end up in a good way and they might fall in love with each other but that's not always the case, that's why i prefer love marriage , the love is always there , the graet memories and the appreciation.
 
Married is one of the most important decisions in life, you are about to choose a life partner , the second parent for your kids, letting your parents choose that person for you is not leading to a success married.
 
Arrange marriage for me. This is for my opinion, because I do not know how to love and who I must give my life. My parents knows what is best for me, and thinking that my parents have reserved someone for me makes me content :)
 
Carmela Ruado said:
Arrange marriage for me. This is for my opinion, because I do not know how to love and who I must give my life. My parents knows what is best for me, and thinking that my parents have reserved someone for me makes me content :)
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Wow!I love your choice and respect it.It really depends on many factors.It is good to have such big trust in your parents and it is also good when you understand yourself. It is better to have someone you trust do something on your behalf than doing it yourself and messing up everything.
 
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